Last May, Dr. George Tiller was gunned down by a pro-life activist in Sunday church. Yesterday the activist, Scott Roeder, was convicted of Dr. Tiller’s murder.

A Kansas jury deliberated just 37 minutes before convicting an anti-abortion activist of first-degree murder in the fatal shooting of an abortion provider.

Roeder says he has no regrets concerning his actions and justifies them by claiming he killed Dr. Tiller to “save lives”.

Prosecutors initially fought to keep abortion out of the trial, claiming that Tiller’s death was a straightforward case of premeditated murder.

Tiller was no stranger to life endangerment. He was regularly attacked and received numerous death threats throughout his career. He figured it was only a matter of time before someone succeeded in his death. No matter what your personal beliefs are on the issue, what happened was a tragedy and an example of extremism.

Roeder will be sentenced on March 9 & faces life in prison.

So what lovely tricks did you use your mouth for last night, pretties?

Well, don’t clean them off (figuratively speaking that is), because today’s Challenge #21 still has you using your mouth in a naughty way.

Oh, I’ve been waiting so very long for Challenge #22: Tie Me Up.

Now, it doesn’t matter if you’re heavily into BDSM or not, the idea of domination and submission can be pretty sexy. Of course, there are various ways to practice such things, and I’ll let you do a bit of exploring of that on your very own, but today’s challenge is simple - somebody get’s tied up.

You may certainly use handcuffs, and you can find the excerpt on some of my tips from that section in the Mominatrix book over at Mommy Track’d.

But if you don’t have a pair of sexy handcuffs just laying around your house, then you can always use pantyhose, socks, or rope (heh) - or whatever else you have that might work

If you want to purchase the appropriate supplies for this (You can use code “MOMINATRIX” for 15% off at Eden Fantasys), then feel free to do that today and save this actual challenge for when you’ve got your cuffs or Just make sure you have the person’s permission (or hey, maybe you want to be tied up).

And be creative. You don’t just have to tie someone’s appendages to the bedposts. Keeping legs or arms free can be fun. Add a blindfold and feather duster, or candles and hot wax if you’re feeling extra naughty. And tie them on on their stomach.

There’s just soooo many options. And really, none of them have to be too kinky if you don’t want them to be.

But if you do, well have at it.

And if you’re a single someone, then there are plenty of BDSM things you can do to yourself. Just be careful.

If you’ve got any tips on what to use to tie someone up for sexual play, or what you can do to them (or have done to you), then feel free to share.

You gotta love bossing someone around, huh? Well, other than your kids, anyway.

So, Challenge #20 should be a mouthful of fun today (heh). It’s amazing how sensual the mouth can be. In fact, my husband sold me by his kisses.

Also, you still have time to enter the Eden Fantasys giveaway!

Challenge #21: Talk Dirty to Me is one of my favorites.

Now it’s super easy to get stuck in a rut.

Right there. Fuck me. I’m coming. Bla bla bla.

I do have to say that my husband is a great dirty talker. I just try not to think about how he acquired those skills.

If you need some hints on talking dirty, you can check out my Mominatrix column. It also helps to watch some porn and read some erotic romance novels. And you can tweak your skills by doing a little sexting, phone sex, or IM sex as well.

And you can also use a few simple “formulas” to get you started, most of which just involve telling your partner what you want or how what he/she is doing feels. Hey! It’s like Mad Libs: Dirty Talk Edition.

1. I want you to ______ my ______.

2. You feel so _______.

3. _______ my _______. (or I want to ______ your ______).

Now, those are very basic, but they’ll get you started. Feel free to leave your favorite lines in the comments.

Morning, my naughty little porn connoisseurs. Today you get to enjoy showing someone who’s boss today for Challenge #19. I tend to be a little bossy anyway, so now I have a good excuse to rub it in a little bit more.

For Challenge #20: Use Your Mouth

So we’ve already done a fair amount with our hands, so now it’s time to put our mouth to work. Here are a few suggestions:

1. Give oral sex (don’t forget ALL the parts down there, ladies)

2. Make out (remember that?)

3. Necking (no hickeys, people - also, doesn’t necking sound like 7the grade or something)

4. Lick and/or bite nipples

5. Use your mouth during intercourse (kissing, necking, nipples, etc.)

6. Lick food and other edibles off your partner

GIVEAWAY ALERT: We’ve got a basket of some edible sex goodies courtesy of Eden Fantasys. They’ll send you a little gift basket ($50 value).

To enter:

1. All you need to do is leave the favorite sexy thing you like to do with your mouth in the comments (one comment per person).

2. For an extra entry, tweet this post. (Leave your tweet link in the comments). Make sure you include @mominatrix (hashtags: #sexualresolution and/or #mominatrix are optional).

3. For another entry, Facebook this post. (Leave your Facebook link in the comments). If you’re not a Mominatrix fan on Facebook yet, join up!

One entry per person (one comment, one tweet, one Facebook)

I’ll pick one lucky winner at random from all the entries that I receive by 12pm EST on 1/20/10.

[I am not being paid to recommend products at Eden Fantasys nor do I make money if you buy anything. You can, however, get 15% off your purchase there with "MOMINATRIX" if you so choose to shop there. Valentine's Day is upon us, people!]

So while I’m a fan of porn, I don’t tend to watch it that often. So for Challenge #18, I’m going to give our DirectTV a little workout and find something that doesn’t look too man-friendly.

Sorry, the whole ejaculating on a woman’s face doesn’t do it for me.

For Challenge #19: Take the Reins, it’s simple. Show your partner who’s boss.

This doesn’t necessarily mean to grab your whip, leash, and ball gag (unless that’s your thing). But it does mean that you make it known that you’re “on the prowl.”

A little ass smack, crotch grab, heavy hinting, or even instigating if you’re in the mood for some loving. Grab your partner’s hand and place it on YOU (or your special parts).

Let your partner know that you’re in charge. And that you want it.

[Disclaimer: I'm not advocating that you do anything to anyone "against" their will, so please make sure that you have permission or are in a consenting relationship before you engage in this challenge]