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Plastic Mothers

Posted November 7, 2006 at 4:21 am by Jessica

I’m not here to discuss plastic mothers as in phony but as in those who are opting for plastic surgery. According to a press release by a plastic surgery firm, Surgery Services of Freericksburg, targeting postpartum mothers presents itself as a unique opportunity:

FREDERICKSBURG, Va., Sept. 28 /PRNewswire/ — For today’s women, sagging bodies no longer are an inevitable aftereffect of childbearing. More mothers are turning to plastic surgery to regain their figures when diet and exercise alone won’t do the trick — and talking openly about their procedures, according to Plastic Surgery Services of Fredericksburg.

“Most of our tummy tuck patients and breast surgery patients are mothers who want to restore their youthful shape,” says Lesi Beamon Mackey, practice administrator for Drs. L. Thomas Albert, Howard Heppe and Harold Bautista at Plastic Surgery Services of Fredericksburg, VA. “And, with the increasing awareness of plastic surgery, we find more are discussing their surgeries publicly.”

The following are just a few of their stories.

Alicia Lidster, age 47, gave birth to her youngest child nine years ago. Despite compliments from her husband, she felt unattractive because her midsection and breasts were sagging from multiple pregnancies. She consulted with her doctor at Plastic Surgery Services of Fredericksburg and opted for a tummy tuck and breast lift in May 2005. “Before the surgery, I was very self- conscious … Now, I feel better and look better,” says Alicia, a stay-at-home mother who also has four grown children. She feels so much more confident that she donned a bathing suit last year to swim with her youngest daughter for the first time ever.

Chantelle Mullen, age 34, worked hard to lose the weight she gained after three pregnancies. But she could not tighten her sagging skin. “I decided on plastic surgery for the problems I knew I couldn’t fix with diet and exercise,” Chantelle says. Her doctor at Plastic Surgery Services of Fredericksburg performed a breast lift and tummy tuck in August 2005.

Some moms need the security of their children to take the risky plunge with them as more mothers are choosing to go under the cosmetic knife with their daughters. You know what they say, “Mothers and daughters who get boob jobs together, stay together.”

According to ABC news, these are just the beginings of beautiful mother and daughter bonding relationships:

July 5, 2006 — Elvia Rabinor said she hadn’t seriously considered plastic surgery until her daughter, Lauren-Beth Kassinger, asked her about it.

“She called me and said, ‘What are you doing this next week? How about getting your nose done?’” Rabinor said.

Plastic surgeons say this mother-daughter team is an example of a growing trend — friends or relatives going under the knife together.

So, are these mothers exercising their right to look and feel beautiful, or is there something more sinister going on here, like a society that values beauty over the daunting task of motherhood? Are moms given no leeway for honorable wrinkles? Is motherhood no longer an excuse for choosing practicality over the cumbersome? Are our expectations unrealistic?

I don’t know the answer, but let’s pretend you were given the opportunity to have any procedure done that you wanted. Would you do it and if so, what would you have done?

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3 Responses to “Plastic Mothers”

  1. 1. Amy said:
    November 7, 2006 @ 7:33 am

    After having a C-section and gall bladder surgery, I would SO never have unnecessary surgery! I would rather sag than endure the pain of recovery, but that’s just me!

  2. 2. Tess said:
    November 8, 2006 @ 12:27 am

    After having 2 children myself and breastfeeding both I have been left with a huge belly. I look 4 months pregnant most of the time even though I have lost all my pregnancy weight gain! Not to mention the saggy breasts…. Still, I would never go for surgery because; 1.I’m petrified of pain (even though I have had two natural no pain relief labours!)
    2.I believe you should stick with what you got-
    motherhood is a blessing not a beauty pagent!

  3. 3. Kimberly said:
    November 8, 2006 @ 4:43 pm

    I have been pregnant for two whole years. I had a c-section with both. The key to recovery from any surgery is to get up and MOVE! But that isn’t going to take away all the loose skin and it isn’t going to get rid of this hideous flap. I live by the motto “If I don’t want to look at me naked, no one else is going to either.” So I’m already trying to figure out how to manage my finances enough to get a tummy tuck, lipo, and a breast lift. With C-sections, it’s like the doctors have entirely forgotten about the mothers. I have to live in this body after they are through carving it up and I feel like crap. Don’t get me wrong, I am grateful for, and love my children dearly. However I am not my children. I am my own person and I am still here. I honestly think that there has to be something better that they could do for mothers who have to have a c-section. I had to have one. It wasn’t an option. Now I don’t even want my husband to look at me. It’s my oppinion of myself, not his, that matters to me. I am also not comparing myself to anyone else but me. I just know that something could be done but nothing is researched for it! Why is that? Does anyone know? If you do then please tell me!
    ~Kimberly~

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