It’s Time for the DILF Wars
Posted
October 13, 2006 at
7:05 am by
Amy
Expanding on a theme, but leaving the heavy-duty stuff to my Imperfect Parent co-bloggers,?‚? I’ve been mulling over a phenomenon lately and it’s all about — the label.
The term “MILF” was brought?‚? to my attention about?‚? eighteen months?‚? ago, by a male friend of mine.
“A WHAT?” I said.
“MILF.”?‚? And he graciously explained.
“Oh,” was all I could muster.
But secretly? My wheels were turning and I jumped on the bandwagon.?‚? No, not to be one, I would never presume that, even as a single mom in a very married suburb.?‚? Men are way too predictable and I don’t fit the mold.?‚? What I realized is that I sit on the other side of the fence. I?‚? was looking at — no, not just looking, oogling, the dads in the bleachers and?‚? at?‚? Parents Night.?‚? I just didn’t know that doing so, had a label.?‚? But it did from that moment on.
DILF.
Oh, so this was not a new concept, just new to me — and to most women. Grouping other adults, yes, married adults mostly, into the “yes” and “no” columns in?‚? your mind was actually something other people did. Well, obviously men were doing it. Why not women??‚? Maybe most married women aren’t thinking about which married men they find attractive, which ones make them wonder, if even for a nanosecond, just what it might be like. I didn’t when I was married, for the most part. But I’m not anymore.?‚? And?‚? sizing up, so to speak, the dad contingent is a great way to spend time when my own kids aren’t up to bat or when the?‚? game or a meeting is dragging on for way. too. long.
There’s hot mom contents, television, books, websites, and even an MILF?‚? category on this blog. Women are either intrigued or appalled at the concept, but nevertheless, being stuck with that “MILF” label is all the rage.
So if the dads knew, that at least some moms kept a list,?‚? would they?‚? balk or complain??‚? Would they write blog posts and articles and?‚? debate over whether or not it’s good for their image, for their career, or for their children for them to be objectified and reduced to merely a “yes” or a “no”??‚? Or would they take it as it’s meant??‚? As a secret compliment and really rather meaningless. I know that history leaves men and women at different ends of the?‚? sexually acceptable spectrum, but the gap is closing each and every day.?‚?
Would there be a war among dads?‚? based on whether or not they wanted?‚? the DILF?‚? label? ?‚? ?‚? ?‚?
If so, something tells me most would simply surrender.
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1. chelle said:
October 13, 2006 @ 4:54 pm
hehe … Other Moms commented on my blog once that my husband was a cutie …. he checked those comments 12 times a day to see if anyone else thought so and was all blushing about it!
2. Gina said:
October 13, 2006 @ 5:36 pm
Oh, we all know that men are so vain, I’m sure they would love having the label.
I think my husband definitely fits the DILF label, although I try not to think about it too much. He is also a man in uniform, so I’m sure that helps as well.
Hands off, be-yatches!
3. Cristina said:
October 14, 2006 @ 12:26 am
Yep, I’m sure most men would want to be thought of as a DILF. They’d say they wouldn’t care, but deep down they would!
4. Jessica Carlson said:
October 14, 2006 @ 5:19 am
Yeah, because we all know men don’t want the opposite sex to be attracted to them.
Oddly enough, I even thought about doing a “DILF” category for our resources page (maybe not the blog), but it sounded so obscene “DILF”. (It reminds of dildo for some reason.)
Anyway…I support the whole DILF project myself. In my suburb, I can’t remember the last time I saw one. I think Dad’s need to get with the program. Suburban Dad’s also fall victim to fashion disasters, like those God-awful “Da Bears” pants. Dads!…get with the program!!
5. Prescott said:
October 14, 2006 @ 1:36 pm
As the token male around here, thought I would chime in and say that I would most certainly take it as a compliment, and not view it as derogatory.
6. Mom101 said:
October 14, 2006 @ 9:06 pm
I think the one difference between men and women is that if a man found himself NOT on the list, he wouldn’t lose sleep over it for a month.
7. Sunshine Scribe said:
October 16, 2006 @ 9:57 am
DILF - I love it. I don’t know one man that would not secretly be glad to be considered one. My husband included. And, by the way, he so is.
8. Mom in WA said:
October 16, 2006 @ 4:31 pm
My neighbor was hosting a bachelorette party at her house one night. I stopped by to give a bottle of wine to the bride and my friend asked if my hubby would stop by in his uniform (fire fighter) and do a sexy dance for them. She must have talked him up pretty good because when I told them he was out of town fishing, all of the ladies were so disappointed! I relayed this story to him and he turned red and then wouldn’t talk very much to me. I think he was secretly satisfied and thinking about it all night!
9. Antique Mommy said:
October 16, 2006 @ 10:43 pm
Kvetch you naughty girl! Funny!
The thing about men is that no matter what they actually look like in the mirror, they all think they are worthy of the DILF label.
10. Stacy said:
October 17, 2006 @ 2:29 pm
Antique Mommy- I know some moms who think they look good when they really don’t. How else can you explain a woman and her giant ass splitting out the seat of a pair of terrycloth shorts? I’m just saying>
11. Prairie Fire said:
January 7, 2007 @ 3:11 pm
hmm, i know many a DILF, why do u think i go to any and every thing the school has that parents would go to… to start at the DILF’s galore…
12. Los Angeles Dad said:
January 10, 2007 @ 5:29 pm
I’m a 40-year-old father of a toddler, married to a MILF.
I find women over 40 to be the hottest women around. Younger than that, not sexy. Why? Because when you’re MILF-vintage, you know yourself, you know what you like and what you don’t like, and you’re not afraid or embarrassed to ask (or demand) for it.
You have character in your skin. You have intelligence in your eyes. You’ve probably tried all the positions and acts that you’ve ever wanted to try, and the ones that turn you on, you’re practiced at, and the ones that didn’t do it for you, you won’t be bullied into doing.
And, most of all, you hot moms out there, being a mom means unequivocally and absolutely that you’ve had unprotected sex, probably lots of times. How else did you get knocked up! And that, ladies, is HOT.
Oh, and I’d love to be labeled a DILF
13. Prairie Fire said:
January 10, 2007 @ 9:37 pm
the only problem with the label MILF or DILF, is how your children look at your friends or your husband/wife’s friends like damn i wanna “fornicate” with them… (i heard my daughter’s friend saying that she wanted to fornicate with a local father at a band concert.) altough i wanna “fornicate” with him too… (dont worry im a single MILF)